THE EXPERIENCE
What Is The Forge: Couples?
Not a Retreat. A Reset.
For couples who have a solid foundation and are ready to grow deeper together. Three days in Montana with Andy & Leah Stumpf and 9 other couples who actually get it. No keynotes from a stage. No name tags. Just the real work.
You have built something real. You are carrying the weight of it together. This is where you put it down, look at each other, and decide what you are actually building toward.
“If the world went completely sideways, Andy Stumpf would be my top draft pick.”
— Joe Rogan
THE OPERATOR CODE
7 Pillars. One Framework.
01 Physical
02 Mental
03 Tactical
04 Financial
05 Relational
06 Professional
07 Legacy
THE RUN OF SHOW
Three Days. Every Minute Intentional.
DAY 1 ARRIVING AS TWO
Settle in. Open up. Begin together.
- 2:00 PM Arrivals
Welcome packet in room: a leather journal for each of you, a personal note from Andy & Leah, and your weekend itinerary. - 6:00 PM Welcome Circle
No titles. No business cards. Just your names and one word each for why you are here. - 6:30 PM Opening Dinner
Family-style. Assigned seating curated across industries and life stages. The conversations that start here last a lifetime. - 8:00 PM Cocktails & Cigars
Curated selections. Fire pit. No agenda. Andy & Leah float, connect, and listen.
DAY 2 GOING DEEPER
Shared challenge. Shared language. Shared growth.
- 7:00 AM Intro to Jiu Jitsu
Taught by Andy & Leah. A physical experience you work through together. Learning to move, communicate, and trust each other under pressure. - 8:30 AM Operator Framework: Relational & Tactical
Interactive teaching covering the Relational and Tactical pillars. Partner discussions built into every segment. This is where the real conversations start. - 1:30 PM Tactical Role Play: Scenarios to Sharpen Your Readiness
Simulated weapon scenarios with professional instructors. Designed to develop instinct, communication, and calm decision-making as a couple. You will know when to act and when to walk away. - 7:00 PM Dinner & Guest Speaker
A guest speaker on mental health, identity, and relationships under pressure. The conversation continues at the table. - 8:30 PM Fire Pit: The Honest Hour
What have you been carrying that you have never said out loud? This is where walls come down and real connection begins.
DAY 3 LOCKING IT IN
Separate. Reflect. Come back stronger.
- 8:30 AM Separate Morning Sessions
Men and women split into their own groups with dedicated instructors. Same topics, different angles: mental health and physical health. Space to be honest in a way that makes coming back together even more powerful. - 10:30 AM Letters to Each Other
Each person writes a letter to their partner. Sealed. Not to be opened until one week after you return home. A commitment made on the mountain, kept in your living room. - 11:30 AM Coming Together
Couples reunite. Each person shares their single biggest takeaway from the weekend. Numbers are exchanged. The tribe stays connected beyond the mountain. - 12:30 PM Departures
You leave different than you arrived. Both of you.
THE DETAILS
Everything Is Intentional
- Curated Small Groups Ten Couples, Carefully Chosen. Not random. The group is assembled across industries, backgrounds, and life stages. These become your people long after Montana.
- Letters Home A Promise You Write to Each Other. On the final morning, each of you writes a letter to your partner. Sealed on the mountain. Opened together one week after you return home.
- 1:1 TimeAccess You Cannot Get Anywhere Else. Most events never let you actually talk to the people you came to see. This one does. Andy & Leah are here for both of you.
- Limited Enrollment10 Couples. That Is It. The intimacy is the point. Ten couples means every conversation matters. Every connection is real. No one gets lost in the crowd.
No spam. Just first access when spots open.
The Forge: Couples is a significant personal investment, not a weekend workshop. This is a premium, five-figure experience for couples who are serious about what comes next.
